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About Joe

Joe was so many things to so many people. He was his parents' baby boy and first son; a brother, best friend, and biggest supporter; a loving grandson, nephew, and cousin to his family; and a best friend to many, treating his friends like they were his chosen family. Joe was an avid sports fan, and followed his New England teams—Celtics, Red Sox, and Patriots.

Growing up, Joe did the typical things – arguing with his brother, competing about who was smarter, who had the better looks, who was going to be richer, and who their parents loved more! But there also were things about Joe that really set him apart. He was authentic, driven, loving and caring. Friends, friends’ moms, coaches, teachers, and family have shared, “Joe is the kindest person I know,” and that he would always go out of his way to put a smile on their faces. When he asked how they had been doing and they said, “I’m fine,” he would look at them again and say, “No, how are you really doing?” Joe was the kind of person you met once and never forgot. Whether you were his best friend or not, he would be the first person to lift you up and put a smile on your face.

Joe also struggled with depression and anxiety, with his brain riddled with anxiety most days, even when he was greeting you with a smile. Mental illness is not the type of “sick” that you can see from the outside or monitor with a screen—it is the type of sick that is a silent killer;

and unless you yourself struggle with mental illness, it’s hard to understand that this wasn’t a choice for Joe. He was at war with his brain every day—and when there is only one person fighting a battle, the winner and loser are the same. But again, that was Joseph—he would rather die helping others than live and get help himself. Although he was only 24, Joe lived an entire lifetime in those years, and touched the lives of so many people around him. He was a light in so many people’s lives and will continue to be, as long as we remember him and that great big smile that everyone knew him for. Though it’s hard to understand why he’s gone, he served his purpose in this world and will continue to help people now even though he’s not physically with us.

Joe’s story has led us to our call to action. Start the conversation and bring awareness to mental health issues, especially in men. Let people know that it’s okay to not be okay. Hug them at their highs and their lows and remind them that there is a brighter tomorrow ahead, even if they can’t see it now.

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